I remember vividly when I made my first 50k naira as a graduate 🥰🥰. I was so proud of myself and I decided to give myself a treat.

I went to a nearby bar where they sell barbeque fish and all kinds of drinks.

I ordered for a big fish and a pack of juice. It was served hot and very spicy. I sat down and was jejelly eating it with pride.

A man came where I was sitting and he asked me why I did not wait for my boyfriend to join me. I knew he was trying to know if I came with someone.

I greeted him and I never gave him an answer. He was equally sitting and drinking. After about thirty minutes, he saw no man sitted with me.

He came to my table and he said it's quite surprising to see a lady pay her bills here alone without any man. I told him that I came to give myself a treat and that I need no man to do it for me.

Till date, I still give myself a treat. I still go out alone, wat and pay my bills.

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